Kids & Teens
When working with children and teens in therapy, I focus on creating a safe, welcoming space where they can feel comfortable expressing themselves. I understand that it can sometimes be hard for kids to talk about their feelings, so I use a variety of creative and engaging techniques, like art, play, and storytelling, to help them explore and process what’s going on in their lives. I also make sure to keep things relatable and age-appropriate, helping them build skills to manage stress, anxiety, or difficult emotions. My goal is to help kids and teens feel heard, supported, and empowered to navigate life’s challenges in a healthy way.
Find out more about my approach with kids on my page about Play Therapy!
Kids & Teens in Therapy
Kids & Teens in Therapy
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Children aged 5-8 are like little adventurers trying to figure out how the world works. They’re learning to navigate emotions, friendships, and school, but sometimes things can feel a little overwhelming. Here are some common struggles they might face that therapy can help with:
Big Emotions: At this age, kids are just starting to learn how to handle their feelings. They might get frustrated when they can't do something, feel nervous about trying new things, or have meltdowns when things don't go their way. Therapy can teach them how to identify their emotions and find healthy ways to express them.
Social Challenges: Making friends and understanding social rules can be tricky! Kids might struggle with sharing, taking turns, or understanding how to play together. Therapy can help them build social skills, like how to take someone else's feelings into account or how to join a group of kids.
Separation Anxiety: Some kids find it hard to say goodbye to their parents, especially when starting school or other new experiences. Therapy can give kids the tools to feel more secure and confident when apart from their caregivers.
Self-Esteem: As they start comparing themselves to others, kids might feel insecure about their abilities, whether it’s in school, sports, or their looks. Therapy helps boost their self-confidence and teaches them that it's okay to be imperfect.
Focusing and Managing Impulses: This age group is still learning how to pay attention and control their impulses. Therapy can help with improving focus, following directions, and controlling those moments when they act before thinking.
Coping with Change: Life can change a lot for kids—moving to a new school, a new sibling, or changes in their family. Therapy can help them process those changes in a healthy way, so they feel supported and less anxious.
Through fun activities and tools, therapy can guide kids through these growing pains and help them develop the skills to tackle challenges with confidence and a sense of calm. It's like giving them a little toolkit to better understand themselves and the world around them!
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Kids aged 9-12 are like explorers on the edge of a new world, where they start dealing with bigger emotions, more complex social situations, and increasing school pressures. Here are some common struggles they might face that therapy can help with:
Self-Identity: At this age, kids are figuring out who they are and where they fit in. They might feel uncertain about their interests, talents, or appearance. Therapy can help them explore their feelings and build self-confidence, so they can embrace their unique identity.
Friendship Drama: Friendships become more complicated as kids get older. They might experience bullying, peer pressure, or misunderstandings with friends. Therapy can help them navigate these relationships, teaching skills like conflict resolution, empathy, and how to handle difficult social situations.
Academic Pressure: As schoolwork gets harder, kids might struggle with anxiety about grades, assignments, or meeting expectations. Therapy can help them develop better study habits, manage stress, and approach challenges with a positive mindset.
Big Emotions: Just like younger kids, kids in this age group still have big feelings but may have trouble expressing them. Anger, sadness, and frustration can feel intense. Therapy helps them identify and understand these emotions and find healthier ways to cope with them.
Body Changes and Puberty: This is the time when kids begin to notice changes in their bodies and may feel awkward or self-conscious. Therapy can provide support as they adjust to physical changes and help them build a healthy body image.
Social Media and Technology: As they start using more technology, they might face challenges with screen time, social media pressures, or cyberbullying. Therapy can teach them how to set boundaries with tech, how to handle online interactions, and how to stay safe while having fun online.
Family Changes: Kids in this age range may face changes in their family life, such as divorce, a new sibling, or a move to a new home. Therapy can help them process these changes, manage feelings of uncertainty, and find ways to feel supported.
Anxiety and Worry: Whether it’s fear of school, fear of not fitting in, or just general worries about the future, anxiety can be a big issue. Therapy teaches relaxation techniques, problem-solving skills, and how to face fears in a manageable way.
With therapy, kids in this age group can gain tools to understand themselves better, communicate their feelings more clearly, and cope with the challenges that come with growing up. It’s like giving them a guidebook for navigating this exciting but sometimes tricky stage of life!
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Teens aged 13-18 are in a whirlwind of changes as they start to explore more independence, face bigger challenges, and experience intense emotions. Here's a breakdown of common struggles that therapy can help with during these transformative years:
Identity and Self-Esteem: Adolescents are figuring out who they are and where they belong in the world. They might question their identity, their values, or feel pressure to “fit in.” Therapy can help them explore their true selves, embrace their individuality, and build healthy self-esteem, so they feel confident in who they are.
Social Pressure and Peer Relationships: Friendships, dating, and social media can be overwhelming. Teens might struggle with fitting in, handling peer pressure, or navigating complicated relationships. Therapy helps them learn healthy boundaries, deal with conflicts, and develop communication skills to create positive relationships.
Academic Stress: The pressure to perform well in school, make college plans, or handle extracurricular commitments can lead to anxiety and stress. Therapy helps teens manage the stress of schoolwork, set realistic goals, and develop strategies for time management and organization.
Mental Health Issues: Anxiety, depression, and mood swings are common in adolescence. Teens may feel overwhelmed by their emotions or struggle with feeling “down” for long periods. Therapy provides a safe space to explore these feelings and offers coping strategies to manage mental health challenges, including mindfulness and relaxation techniques.
Body Image and Puberty: With the physical and emotional changes of puberty, teens may experience self-consciousness or dissatisfaction with their bodies. Therapy can help them build a positive body image, understand the natural changes they’re going through, and learn to embrace their physical selves with confidence.
Family Dynamics and Independence: As teens push for more independence, there may be tension with family members. They might struggle with communicating needs, dealing with conflicts, or navigating shifting family roles. Therapy can support both teens and parents in improving communication and building healthier family dynamics.
Romantic Relationships: This is the time when romantic interests and relationships become more important. Teens might feel unsure about love, attraction, or even experience heartache. Therapy helps them understand healthy relationships, set boundaries, and navigate feelings like infatuation or rejection.
Substance Use and Risky Behavior: Teens might experiment with substances or take part in risky behavior as they search for excitement or cope with stress. Therapy can address the reasons behind these behaviors, help teens understand consequences, and guide them toward healthier choices and coping strategies.
Social Media and Technology: The digital world can add a whole new layer of stress for teens. Whether it’s dealing with cyberbullying, comparison, or the pressures of maintaining an online image, therapy can help teens manage their relationship with technology and develop a balanced, healthy approach to social media.
Future Uncertainty: The question of "What’s next?" can feel daunting as teens look toward their future—college, careers, and life choices. Therapy can help them manage uncertainty, clarify their goals, and explore their passions and interests, so they feel more confident about stepping into adulthood.
In therapy, teens get a space to talk about their emotions, struggles, and goals, while learning coping skills, emotional regulation, and tools to improve their mental health. Therapy helps them understand that it's okay to ask for help and that they don't have to navigate this rollercoaster phase of life alone!